Some people will go to great lengths to imitate others, not out of admiration, but from a deep desire to erase originality.
If you observe closely, you’ll notice how they mimic your every move, from the way you sit, speak, and work, to your mannerisms and behavior. If they could, they would copy your entire existence, as though doing so might somehow erase you from the equation altogether.
What’s more troubling is that these individuals often find subtle ways to undermine you in everyday interactions. They attempt to overshadow you in regular conversations, sometimes by boldly concluding that you “like to argue”, a dismissive tactic to silence your voice, or by spewing unfounded facts or blatant lies just to appear more intelligent in the eyes of others.
Pride and boastfulness aren’t just character flaws for them, they are the very essence of their personalities.
There was a time I was naïve about this dynamic.
I unknowingly played into their hands, especially at work.
I would engage in discussions that, in hindsight, were clearly orchestrated setups designed to destabilize me emotionally and mentally. But the moment I became aware of what was truly going on, I withdrew from those spaces.
I stopped participating in discussions that were never meant to build but to break.
With time, I came to see just how much emotional manipulation and subtle mind control I had been subjected to. I had been pushed to make decisions that did not align with my values or best interests, often out of fear, guilt, or the pressure to “defend” myself in battles that were never mine to fight.
The truth is, working in an organization comes with its own set of silent wars.
But knowing yourself, truly knowing who you are and what you stand for, is your greatest shield.
It helps cushion the blows of these invisible missiles aimed at your confidence, your peace, and your core identity.
So, protect your energy.
Choose your battles.
And never let anyone trick you into shrinking, just to make themselves feel bigger.