Gentlemen, let me talk to you for a moment.
If you are still moving the way some of you are moving, I need you to stop. Correct yourself.
You know this thing;
When you see a woman, especially one who carries herself with grace and self-respect, you immediately size her up like you’re above her or she must “fall in line” and respect you.
Please, correct that thinking.
Go home and reset your mindset.
We live in a time now where women see their partners as equals.
But hear me clearly, this does not mean there aren’t still women out here who genuinely want to love, respect, honor, and even adore their husbands or boyfriends.
These women exist.
They are out here.
In fact, believe it or not, there are more good, solid women than the “bad” ones you think dominate.
It only seems like the bad ones are everywhere because society is loud, messy and noisy.
And the bad ones?
They’re always the loudest in the room.
But the good women?
The women you truly want? They’re quiet. You won’t find them in all those places you’re running to every weekend.
They’re at home, building themselves, refining themselves, waiting for someone worthy.
And listen, even these good women have standards.
They know right from wrong. They will not tolerate nonsense from any man.
You cannot approach a woman with childish games and expect her to be impressed.
If the only thing you’re wondering is, “Will she submit to me?” it means you have nothing real to offer.
Because if you’re a real man, mentally, emotionally, spiritually, financially stable, respect will come naturally.
You won’t need to force it. You won’t need to demand it.
You won’t need to throw tantrums or act bossy.
It won’t be about “What do you bring to the table?”
It will be about who you are at your core.
Are you full of wisdom?
Do you have depth?
Or are you just an empty vessel spouting nonsense?
Because if there’s nothing inside, and the woman you are approaching is filled with value, knowledge and class, you will be rejected at first glance.
No kidding.
It’s not about being handsome.
It’s not about being trendy.
It’s not about dressing clean and sharp.
I’ve seen fine women marry regular men, not because of looks, but because those men had something “upstairs.” They had depth.
It’s not about what you wear. It’s about your mind. Your spirit.
So before you go chasing a “wife material” woman, stop and ask yourself:
Are YOU husband material?
Because if you are not, you will not attract her. Simple.
Most women, deep down, want to be soft with their man, to submit naturally.
But if you’re arrogant, prideful or controlling, it will never happen, no matter how rich or powerful you are.
I’m not talking about broken women with poor character, forget them.
I’m talking about good women. Women who will respect you if you’re worthy.
But you must know, it’s not about your money, your clothes, your car or how well you speak.
It’s about what’s within you.
Ask yourself:
If I had no money, no influence and I got into a tough situation, could I talk my way out of it? Could I think my way out? Could I remain calm and handle it with wisdom?
That’s the test.
It’s about your ingenuity, your emotional intelligence, your crisis management skills.
How do you handle life?
Because if you don’t build these qualities within, you’ll keep repeating the same mistakes, burning bridges, and losing good opportunities.
Yes, this may sound like I’m drifting from the “relationship” topic, but really, it’s all connected.
If you don’t have depth, people will misunderstand you. People will judge you. People will leave.
Not because you’re “bad,” but because you failed to show the true substance of who you are.
It’s not all about you. It’s about all of us.
Everyone deserves respect and dignity.
You can’t lord yourself over others and expect peace in return. It doesn’t work that way.
So if you’re an average guy wanting a good woman, listen carefully:
Be yourself.
Be original. Be authentic.
Stop trying to flex with what you own.
Lead with your mind, your wisdom, your spirit.
Grow your intellectual capacity.
Be a man of depth, not just flash.
We live in an age where everyone knows something, what matters now is how your knowledge stands out and how you apply it.
Superior wisdom is what women are drawn to.
Not “I have this,” or “I know that,” or “I do this.”
So I’ll close with this:
Be yourself. Be original. Build your character.
And the right woman will find you.
Stop being bossy. Let your woman talk to you.
Relate with her like you would with your child, your close friend, your sister, with patience, kindness and love.
Women, in many ways, are like children in the emotional sense, they want to be loved, cared for, protected and adored.
Be that kind of man.
Make the right choice today.
Become the kind of man women are naturally drawn to.
And thank me later.
Have a great day.
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