Odogwu No Dey Look For Liability

All my sisters, when una hear “Odogwu”, una eyes dey shine like say na jackpot.
Una dey house, just dey wish say one rich, powerful man go appear, sweep una off una feet, carry una go one promise land wey even me no sabi.

One of my sisters come dey cry say her boyfriend break her heart.
I asked her, “How? What happened?”
She said, “He promised me the world.”
I laughed. I say, “No wonder he broke your heart.”

Because you believed him? Seriously?
You are stingy, you are wicked, you are foolish.
Person promise you the whole world, and you gree?
Na the whole world he talk? Where you wan make me and my brothers stay?
You wan carry the whole world for your pocket?
Abeg, my sister, use your head.

Let me tell you something straight from the heart:

Odogwu no dey look for woman wey go depend on am.

Odogwu no be mumu.
Yes, he get money. Yes, he fit spoil woman. But listen carefully, Odogwu wants an independent woman.
A woman wey don dey do things for herself.
A woman wey sabi manage money.
A woman wey go help multiply wetin he bring.

He is already a spender. He doesn’t need another spender.
He’s looking for a builder.
He’s looking for a partner, not a project.

If you no get anything doing,
If you dey house dey wait for manna to fall,
Odogwu no go come.

This is serious advice for all the “Odogwu seekers”:

You want Odogwu to find you? First, become Lolo.
Be the queen of your own kingdom before you try enter another man own.

You see that mall where you dey dream say Odogwu go find you?
Go there and buy yourself something expensive, with your own money.
Buy that car. Pay for it with your card.
When Odogwu see you there, he go say:
“My darling, don’t stress. Put it on me.”
That’s how Odogwu knows he’s found his match.

But if you dey wait inside your papa house, no plan, no hustle, no ambition
My dear, Odogwu will not come.

You want to catch Odogwu?
Go to where Odogwu go dey, and live the life that attracts Odogwu.

But don’t fake it. Don’t lift a life you no fit maintain.
Don’t borrow clothes, borrow drinks, borrow lifestyle, to impress.
Na suicide mission be that.
Live the life for real. Be that woman for real.

When Odogwu walks into the room and sees a true queen
An independent woman, confident, focused, goal-driven
He recognizes her spirit.
He sees value. He sees future.
And that’s when he says, “This is my Lolo.”

Odogwu no dey follow woman wey dey jump from one man to another.
Odogwu likes women who are focused.
Women who dey chase career, purpose, destiny.
Women who walk like they own the street, not like they dey beg for attention.

You want Odogwu?
Face your career. Face your business. Face your life.
No dey distracted by petty drama or fake love.
When you become Lolo, Odogwu will come.

Let me ask you:

• Can you pay your bills without calling anybody?
• Can you walk into a restaurant and order whatever you want without blinking?
• Can you buy your own phone, your own bag, your own life?

If you no fit do that, then you never be Lolo.

Lolo no dey chase man.
Lolo no dey drag attention.
Lolo dey command respect, because she knows her value.

And guess what?
Odogwu recognizes value.
Odogwu respects value.
Odogwu only settles for Lolo.

So if you truly want your Odogwu, stop praying for him to come.
Start becoming the kind of woman that attracts him.

Build your kingdom.
Rule your space.
Pay your dues.
And one day, when you least expect it, Odogwu go show.

Not because you begged, but because you earned it.

So, my sister… be the Lolo.
Because when Lolo shows up, Odogwu shows up too.

Have a powerful day. 👑